!He looooooves his children!!!!! He has already said what he's going to say. he doesn't talk to me like he talked to her. I always had insecurities with my husband because I always felt I was the rebound girl. It's a mistake to expect some man to say "I love you more and my ex was a mistake". my husband really loved his ex, they were together for over 5 years. They are the light of his life!!!!!

Because he is insecure in himself, he's looking to you to build him up. Plus, a lot of people think it is a major failure to have a marriage fail, and they will go extreme lengths to try to make it work.

Coping with a breakup or divorce can be intensely painful. And I thought about it...and he was right.

It did nothing but make you even more insecure and for what? Eventually you will drive him away.

Blow his mind in the bedroom, that works with ANY man. You probably wonder what he would do if she ever decided to come back around and give him another chance, and this leaves you insecure because you think he might love her enough to throw away everything you guys have.What has helped me is to realize that somethings are out of your control, and you have to let go of it. I love him and will probibly marry him in a few years. If you knew that you had this kind of insecurity, why did you even get married?

my husband really loved his ex, they were together for over 5 years.

With my husband, we talk on the phone, and we don't need to tell each other that love each other every minute to know it. My ex wife also left me and than while during a trial separated cheated on me even while we were still seeing each other on the weekends (Conjugal visits and all)!
Will he ever get over her? if he never talks about her, you need to stop.Wie finden Sie die Antworten? I suggest you stop snooping, you may not like what you find.you reallly are not being fair here. but not now.You are going to hate me for saying this.Once a man loves a woman like that and gets hurt he will NEVER love another woman the same way because when a person makes someone else their center of the universe and reason for living and they are rejected, the pain is more than some can bare hon.I loved my ex like that and I will never allow someone to become that important ever again, I will love them enough that I hope I could die in their place if the need came, but to live as though I could not live without them, is selfish and an act of worship.Only GOD gets that place in my life.Your complaining because he doesn't "love you more".He LOVES you and if he didn't he would either have shacked you or dumped you.Does he say he loves you?Does he show he loves you?Or are you going to make his life a living hell because he won't do more to "prove he loves you more than her"?It is not that he doesn't love you more than her, he can only love as much as he can love since being hurt like that, it is never the same again, sorry.It is a defense mechanism.His love will grow if you treat him right, make things so he WANTS to come home to you!

He has since moved on. This is one of the signs of an insecure man in love, insecure husbands tend to display this behavior more than wives. he hasn't talked to her since we have been together as far as i know.i found some emails he wrote her and they were all so sweet. And I was relieved that I didn't have to tell him (or lie to him) about my past relationships. But it takes two to be in love. It’s just that you can’t be dishing it out at his beck and call.

Are you happier now? I accept it, but she's wrong to think that way.

We know the big things, but none of the gory details or heartaches.Every relationship is different. Apparently he does not love you more than her or he would have said so, or at least cared enough to lie to shut you up.


She dumped him for a reason.How long have you and him been together? Otherwise it's just insecurity and jealousy! He never talks about her. She dug up old cards, messages, gifts I had given, etc. she dumped him and he continued to pursue her until we started dating. she dumped him and he continued to pursue her until we started dating.

I can't help that my first love has left an impression on me and he knows that. I love my current wife and not any less than my ex wife or my previous gf I went with for 5 years 20 years ago. i know he is honest when he says he hasn't spoken to her, but it bothers me that he loved her so much and continued to chase her.i asked him if he loved me as much as he loved her and told him i found his old emails.

When an insecure wife is unsatisfied with her own space, she naturally wants to jump more into her husband’s world. if you continue on this path, you are going to be divorced.

The issue is yours....you need to seek help for that.

he said that he loves me and only me now, and that is all that matters. i found some emails he wrote her and they were all so sweet. Me and my ex remained friends after our divorce but now I dont even contact her anymore because my wife gets very jealous and insecure. I have slowly learned to trust again, become sweeter, more romantic. It was unfair to me when my husband did it. I fell in love with a girl in 1973.

I'm sorry, but honestly, there is no other logical explanation.Either accept it or move on, he does not owe you an explanation of his emotional past prior to you.

Most adults WILL have a past.

I was married for 10 years and my present wife went through some of the same issues your talking about. I NEVER want to be in that position.I think it was unfair that he got into a relationship with you when he was not over his ex.

There comes a point when you’ve got to let him deal with it himself. Insecure men can be hard to spot on the early stages of dating and falling in love, so here are 15 signs of insecurity in a guy for women to watch ... www.helpguide.org.

He is with you now and not here. He got into the relationship knowing full well that he could not give you all of the attention, and dedication you deserve.I, on the other hand waited a year to get over my ex before I met my husband.Some people live their lives like a speeding train, and don't care how their actions affect other people.I know exactly what you are thinking.